The Mother’s Cottage Roadmap
Your birth story is only the beginning. Let's prepare for everything that comes next.
A Complete Pregnancy, Birth & Postpartum Guide
Birth lasts a day. Becoming a parent lasts a lifetime. This guide prepares you for both.
Evidence-Based Childbirth Education Meets Holistic Wisdom
Everything you need to prepare for pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding, postpartum recovery, newborn care, and the life-changing transition into parenthood—all in one comprehensive guide.
Preparing for Birth Shouldn't Feel Overwhelming
Preparing for a baby has never been easier—or more overwhelming.
Between books, blogs, podcasts, social media, and well-meaning advice from family and friends, it's hard to know what information to trust.
Most resources focus on just one piece of the journey: pregnancy, labor, breastfeeding, newborn care, or postpartum recovery.
This roadmap brings it all together in one trusted place, combining evidence-based research, practical experience, and holistic wisdom to help you prepare with confidence.
More Than a Childbirth Class
This isn't simply a guide to labor. It's a roadmap for becoming a parent.
Drawing on over a decade of experience supporting families as a birth doula, postpartum doula, lactation specialist, newborn care specialist, Ayurvedic postpartum practitioner, and childbirth educator, I've brought together the information I wish every family had in one place.
Whether you're planning an unmedicated birth, an epidural, an induction, a VBAC, a cesarean birth, or simply want to feel informed before making decisions, this guide is designed to help you understand your options—not tell you what to choose.
More Than a Guide—A Roadmap You Can Work Through
Reading information is one thing. Applying it to your own pregnancy, birth, and family is another.
That's why every roadmap includes a thoughtfully designed companion workbook to help you and your partner (if applicable) to turn knowledge into action.
As you move through each chapter, you'll find guided exercises, reflection prompts, planning worksheets, checklists, and space to organize your thoughts, questions, and preferences. Each chapter also has a specific section dedicated to partners- offering them knowledge, education and preparation practices.
The workbook is designed to help you:
Prepare for appointments and ask informed questions.
Clarify your birth preferences and values.
Reflect on your hopes, fears, and goals for birth and postpartum.
Create practical plans for breastfeeding, newborn care, and the first forty days.
Build a postpartum support plan before your baby arrives.
Involve your partner in meaningful conversations and decision-making.
Record notes and insights as you learn.
Return to the workbook throughout pregnancy, postpartum, and early parenthood whenever you need guidance.
This isn't meant to be another book that sits on a shelf after you've finished reading it.
It's a practical companion you'll return to throughout your journey—helping you feel more organized, more prepared, and more confident every step of the way.
What's Included
1) The Complete Pregnancy, Birth & Postpartum Roadmap
A beautifully designed guide combining evidence-based care and traditional and holistic wisdom that walks you through every stage of the journey—from pregnancy and birth to breastfeeding, postpartum recovery, newborn care, and the transition into parenthood. SEE BELOW FOR A FULL LIST OF WHAT YOU WILL LEARN!
2) Companion Workbook
A thoughtfully designed workbook that helps you apply what you learn to your own unique journey.
Inside you'll find:
Reflection prompts
Birth planning worksheets
Postpartum preparation guides
Partner discussion questions
Checklists and planning tools
Space for notes and questions
Exercises to help you prepare with confidence—not perfection
This is more than something to read—it's something to work through.
3) Three Private Virtual Support Sessions
Learning is powerful.
Having someone you trust to guide you through it is even more valuable.
Your roadmap includes three one-on-one virtual sessions with me, giving you the opportunity to ask questions, personalize what you've learned, and feel supported throughout your journey.
Pregnancy Session
Together we'll discuss your pregnancy, answer your questions, review your preparation, and talk through any concerns or decisions you're navigating as you get ready for birth.
Birth Preparation Session
We'll review your birth preferences, discuss labor and comfort measures, explore your options, and help you feel informed and confident before your baby's arrival.
Postpartum Planning Session
We'll prepare for the fourth trimester by creating a realistic plan for recovery, breastfeeding, newborn care, partner support, and the sacred first forty days. You'll also have plenty of time to ask questions about anything that's on your mind.
These conversations are tailored to you and your family—because every pregnancy, every birth, and every postpartum experience is unique.
My goal is for you to leave each session feeling heard, supported, and empowered to make informed decisions with confidence.
What You'll Learn
PREGNANCY
How your body changes throughout pregnancy
Nutrition and holistic wellness
Preparing mentally and emotionally
Understanding prenatal testing
Building your birth team
Movement to prepare your body for labor
Preparing your partner
Birth planning
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LABOR & BIRTH
Understand what's actually happening during labor—not just what to expect.
Topics include:
Birth Physiology & Labor
Understanding the stages of labor
What contractions are actually doing
How the cervix changes during labor
The hormones that guide birth
How your baby moves through the pelvis
Why labor progresses differently for every family
Birth positions and movement
Comfort measures and pain management
Breathing techniques
Creating an environment that supports oxytocin
Understanding the Golden Hour
Preparing for unexpected changes in birth
The Mind, Nervous System & Emotional Preparation
Understanding how fear and safety influence labor
The role of the nervous system in birth
Polyvagal Theory made simple
How stress hormones affect labor
Building resilience before birth
Working with fear instead of against it
Creating a calm birth environment
Visualization and guided imagery
Meditation and mindfulness
Breath as a tool for regulation
Positive birth affirmations and mantras
Partner co-regulation during labor
Protecting your emotional energy
Birth as a Rite of Passage
Because birth changes far more than your body.
Explore topics such as:
Birth as a profound life transition
The transformation into motherhood (Matrescence)
Letting go of expectations while honoring your birth experience
Finding meaning in every birth story
Trusting your intuition alongside medical care
Preparing spiritually for birth
Prayer, intention, and ritual
The power of presence over perfection
Building confidence before labor begins
The wisdom of surrender
Processing your birth story after delivery
Your baby's experience of birth
Honoring birth across cultures and traditions
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MEDICAL DECISIONS MADE SIMPLE
One of the biggest sources of anxiety during pregnancy is not understanding why certain interventions are recommended.
You'll learn the evidence behind:
Induction of labor
Breaking your water
Pitocin
Continuous fetal monitoring
Epidurals
Vacuum and forceps
Cesarean birth
VBAC
Delayed cord clamping
Circumcision
Common newborn procedures
Rather than being told what to choose, you'll learn how to make informed decisions with confidence.
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BREASTFEEDING
Practical, evidence-based guidance on:
The first feed
Milk production
Latch
Supply
Oversupply
Engorgement
Pumping
Bottle feeding
Combination feeding
Formula feeding
Cluster feeding
Growth spurts
Mastitis
Tongue tie
Returning to work
Weaning
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POSTPARTUM RECOVERY & THE FIRST 40 DAYS
Inspired by traditional postpartum practices from cultures around the world.
Learn about:
Why slowing down supports healing
Rest as an essential part of recovery
Protecting your energy
Receiving help without guilt
Creating a healing home environment
Establishing gentle daily rhythms
Honoring the transition into motherhood
Setting loving boundaries with visitors
Protecting your peace during postpartum
Building your village before birth
Ayurvedic Postpartum Healing
Discover how ancient traditions align with modern understanding of recovery.
Topics include:
The Ayurvedic view of postpartum healing
Rebuilding vitality (Ojas)
Supporting digestion after birth
Warm, nourishing meals
Healing soups, stews, porridges, and broths
Postpartum herbs and herbal teas
Hydration for recovery and breastfeeding
Warmth as medicine
Abhyanga (Ayurvedic oil massage)
Belly wrapping and pelvic support
Gentle daily rituals
Restoring the nervous system
Supporting sleep through rhythm instead of perfection
Breastfeeding & Nourishment
Establishing breastfeeding
Milk production
Latch and positioning
Common feeding challenges
Pumping and bottle feeding
Combination feeding
Nourishing yourself while feeding your baby
Foods that support recovery and lactation
Gentle meal planning for the early weeks
Emotional Healing & Identity
Because postpartum isn't only physical.
You'll explore:
Matrescence and identity shifts
Baby blues vs. postpartum depression and anxiety
Processing your birth story
Body image with compassion
Relationships after birth
Partner support
Rebuilding confidence
Honoring grief and joy together
Rediscovering yourself as you become a parent
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NEWBORN CARE
Everything new parents wish they knew.
Including:
Newborn behavior
Feeding cues
Diapers
Bathing
Umbilical cord care
Jaundice
Reflux
Babywearing
Development
Infant sleep
Safe sleep
Crying
Colic
Common newborn concerns
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PARTNER SUPPORT
Because babies don't just create mothers.
They create fathers and partners too.
Learn about:
Supporting labor
Supporting postpartum
Communication
Conflict
Relationship changes
Patrescence
Emotional adjustment
Sharing the mental load
Becoming a team