The Mother’s Cottage Roadmap

Your birth story is only the beginning. Let's prepare for everything that comes next.

A Complete Pregnancy, Birth & Postpartum Guide

Birth lasts a day. Becoming a parent lasts a lifetime. This guide prepares you for both.

Evidence-Based Childbirth Education Meets Holistic Wisdom

Everything you need to prepare for pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding, postpartum recovery, newborn care, and the life-changing transition into parenthood—all in one comprehensive guide.

Preparing for Birth Shouldn't Feel Overwhelming

Preparing for a baby has never been easier—or more overwhelming.

Between books, blogs, podcasts, social media, and well-meaning advice from family and friends, it's hard to know what information to trust.

Most resources focus on just one piece of the journey: pregnancy, labor, breastfeeding, newborn care, or postpartum recovery.

This roadmap brings it all together in one trusted place, combining evidence-based research, practical experience, and holistic wisdom to help you prepare with confidence.

More Than a Childbirth Class

This isn't simply a guide to labor. It's a roadmap for becoming a parent.

Drawing on over a decade of experience supporting families as a birth doula, postpartum doula, lactation specialist, newborn care specialist, Ayurvedic postpartum practitioner, and childbirth educator, I've brought together the information I wish every family had in one place.

Whether you're planning an unmedicated birth, an epidural, an induction, a VBAC, a cesarean birth, or simply want to feel informed before making decisions, this guide is designed to help you understand your options—not tell you what to choose.

More Than a Guide—A Roadmap You Can Work Through

Reading information is one thing. Applying it to your own pregnancy, birth, and family is another.

That's why every roadmap includes a thoughtfully designed companion workbook to help you and your partner (if applicable) to turn knowledge into action.

As you move through each chapter, you'll find guided exercises, reflection prompts, planning worksheets, checklists, and space to organize your thoughts, questions, and preferences. Each chapter also has a specific section dedicated to partners- offering them knowledge, education and preparation practices.

The workbook is designed to help you:

  • Prepare for appointments and ask informed questions.

  • Clarify your birth preferences and values.

  • Reflect on your hopes, fears, and goals for birth and postpartum.

  • Create practical plans for breastfeeding, newborn care, and the first forty days.

  • Build a postpartum support plan before your baby arrives.

  • Involve your partner in meaningful conversations and decision-making.

  • Record notes and insights as you learn.

  • Return to the workbook throughout pregnancy, postpartum, and early parenthood whenever you need guidance.

This isn't meant to be another book that sits on a shelf after you've finished reading it.

It's a practical companion you'll return to throughout your journey—helping you feel more organized, more prepared, and more confident every step of the way.

What's Included

1) The Complete Pregnancy, Birth & Postpartum Roadmap

A beautifully designed guide combining evidence-based care and traditional and holistic wisdom that walks you through every stage of the journey—from pregnancy and birth to breastfeeding, postpartum recovery, newborn care, and the transition into parenthood. SEE BELOW FOR A FULL LIST OF WHAT YOU WILL LEARN!

2) Companion Workbook

A thoughtfully designed workbook that helps you apply what you learn to your own unique journey.

Inside you'll find:

  • Reflection prompts

  • Birth planning worksheets

  • Postpartum preparation guides

  • Partner discussion questions

  • Checklists and planning tools

  • Space for notes and questions

  • Exercises to help you prepare with confidence—not perfection

This is more than something to read—it's something to work through.

3) Three Private Virtual Support Sessions

Learning is powerful.

Having someone you trust to guide you through it is even more valuable.

Your roadmap includes three one-on-one virtual sessions with me, giving you the opportunity to ask questions, personalize what you've learned, and feel supported throughout your journey.

Pregnancy Session

Together we'll discuss your pregnancy, answer your questions, review your preparation, and talk through any concerns or decisions you're navigating as you get ready for birth.

Birth Preparation Session

We'll review your birth preferences, discuss labor and comfort measures, explore your options, and help you feel informed and confident before your baby's arrival.

Postpartum Planning Session

We'll prepare for the fourth trimester by creating a realistic plan for recovery, breastfeeding, newborn care, partner support, and the sacred first forty days. You'll also have plenty of time to ask questions about anything that's on your mind.

These conversations are tailored to you and your family—because every pregnancy, every birth, and every postpartum experience is unique.

My goal is for you to leave each session feeling heard, supported, and empowered to make informed decisions with confidence.

What You'll Learn

PREGNANCY

  • How your body changes throughout pregnancy

  • Nutrition and holistic wellness

  • Preparing mentally and emotionally

  • Understanding prenatal testing

  • Building your birth team

  • Movement to prepare your body for labor

  • Preparing your partner

  • Birth planning

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LABOR & BIRTH

Understand what's actually happening during labor—not just what to expect.

Topics include:

Birth Physiology & Labor

  • Understanding the stages of labor

  • What contractions are actually doing

  • How the cervix changes during labor

  • The hormones that guide birth

  • How your baby moves through the pelvis

  • Why labor progresses differently for every family

  • Birth positions and movement

  • Comfort measures and pain management

  • Breathing techniques

  • Creating an environment that supports oxytocin

  • Understanding the Golden Hour

  • Preparing for unexpected changes in birth

The Mind, Nervous System & Emotional Preparation

  • Understanding how fear and safety influence labor

  • The role of the nervous system in birth

  • Polyvagal Theory made simple

  • How stress hormones affect labor

  • Building resilience before birth

  • Working with fear instead of against it

  • Creating a calm birth environment

  • Visualization and guided imagery

  • Meditation and mindfulness

  • Breath as a tool for regulation

  • Positive birth affirmations and mantras

  • Partner co-regulation during labor

  • Protecting your emotional energy

Birth as a Rite of Passage

Because birth changes far more than your body.

Explore topics such as:

  • Birth as a profound life transition

  • The transformation into motherhood (Matrescence)

  • Letting go of expectations while honoring your birth experience

  • Finding meaning in every birth story

  • Trusting your intuition alongside medical care

  • Preparing spiritually for birth

  • Prayer, intention, and ritual

  • The power of presence over perfection

  • Building confidence before labor begins

  • The wisdom of surrender

  • Processing your birth story after delivery

  • Your baby's experience of birth

  • Honoring birth across cultures and traditions

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MEDICAL DECISIONS MADE SIMPLE

One of the biggest sources of anxiety during pregnancy is not understanding why certain interventions are recommended.

You'll learn the evidence behind:

  • Induction of labor

  • Breaking your water

  • Pitocin

  • Continuous fetal monitoring

  • Epidurals

  • Vacuum and forceps

  • Cesarean birth

  • VBAC

  • Delayed cord clamping

  • Circumcision

  • Common newborn procedures

Rather than being told what to choose, you'll learn how to make informed decisions with confidence.

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BREASTFEEDING

Practical, evidence-based guidance on:

  • The first feed

  • Milk production

  • Latch

  • Supply

  • Oversupply

  • Engorgement

  • Pumping

  • Bottle feeding

  • Combination feeding

  • Formula feeding

  • Cluster feeding

  • Growth spurts

  • Mastitis

  • Tongue tie

  • Returning to work

  • Weaning

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POSTPARTUM RECOVERY & THE FIRST 40 DAYS

Inspired by traditional postpartum practices from cultures around the world.

Learn about:

  • Why slowing down supports healing

  • Rest as an essential part of recovery

  • Protecting your energy

  • Receiving help without guilt

  • Creating a healing home environment

  • Establishing gentle daily rhythms

  • Honoring the transition into motherhood

  • Setting loving boundaries with visitors

  • Protecting your peace during postpartum

  • Building your village before birth

Ayurvedic Postpartum Healing

Discover how ancient traditions align with modern understanding of recovery.

Topics include:

  • The Ayurvedic view of postpartum healing

  • Rebuilding vitality (Ojas)

  • Supporting digestion after birth

  • Warm, nourishing meals

  • Healing soups, stews, porridges, and broths

  • Postpartum herbs and herbal teas

  • Hydration for recovery and breastfeeding

  • Warmth as medicine

  • Abhyanga (Ayurvedic oil massage)

  • Belly wrapping and pelvic support

  • Gentle daily rituals

  • Restoring the nervous system

  • Supporting sleep through rhythm instead of perfection

Breastfeeding & Nourishment

  • Establishing breastfeeding

  • Milk production

  • Latch and positioning

  • Common feeding challenges

  • Pumping and bottle feeding

  • Combination feeding

  • Nourishing yourself while feeding your baby

  • Foods that support recovery and lactation

  • Gentle meal planning for the early weeks

Emotional Healing & Identity

Because postpartum isn't only physical.

You'll explore:

  • Matrescence and identity shifts

  • Baby blues vs. postpartum depression and anxiety

  • Processing your birth story

  • Body image with compassion

  • Relationships after birth

  • Partner support

  • Rebuilding confidence

  • Honoring grief and joy together

  • Rediscovering yourself as you become a parent

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NEWBORN CARE

Everything new parents wish they knew.

Including:

  • Newborn behavior

  • Feeding cues

  • Diapers

  • Bathing

  • Umbilical cord care

  • Jaundice

  • Reflux

  • Babywearing

  • Development

  • Infant sleep

  • Safe sleep

  • Crying

  • Colic

  • Common newborn concerns

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PARTNER SUPPORT

Because babies don't just create mothers.

They create fathers and partners too.

Learn about:

  • Supporting labor

  • Supporting postpartum

  • Communication

  • Conflict

  • Relationship changes

  • Patrescence

  • Emotional adjustment

  • Sharing the mental load

  • Becoming a team

INVESTMENT: $500